Men’s Mental Health Services in New Jersey
Men’s Mental Health Treatment in NJ
Specialized psychiatric care for men by board-certified psychiatrists in Red Bank and via telehealth across NJ, NY, and PA
Men’s mental health services at Kolli Psychiatric & Associates provide comprehensive psychiatric evaluation and treatment specifically tailored to the challenges men face. Our board-certified, fellowship-trained psychiatrists understand that men often experience and express mental health symptoms differently than women—and that societal expectations can make it harder for men to seek help.
We provide a judgment-free environment where you can openly discuss depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship problems, anger, substance use, or any mental health concern affecting your life. Most patients receive a clear diagnosis and personalized treatment plan at the first visit, including medication management when appropriate.
Many men wait years before seeking psychiatric care, often coming in only when symptoms become severe or start affecting work, relationships, or physical health. You don’t need to hit rock bottom to deserve help. Whether you’re dealing with persistent stress, noticing changes in your mood or energy, struggling with focus and motivation, or simply feel like something’s off, psychiatric evaluation and treatment can make a significant difference.
We offer men’s mental health services in-person at our Red Bank office or via secure telehealth throughout New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania.
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Meet our Team
At Kolli Psychiatric and Associates, our team of dedicated New Jersey psychiatrists provides comprehensive, compassionate mental health services tailored to meet the unique needs of each patient. Whether you’re seeking an ADHD evaluation, depression diagnosis, or anxiety treatment in NJ, our providers are here to support you on your journey to wellness.
Dr. Sireesha Kolli
Child, Adolescent and Adult Psychiatrist
Dr. Neha Naqvi
Child, Adolescent and Adult Psychiatrist
Dr. Pooja Tandon
Adult Psychiatrist
What to Expect at Your Men’s Mental Health Evaluation
Your first appointment is a confidential, in-depth conversation designed to understand what you’re experiencing and create a treatment plan that works for your life. This isn’t about being told to “talk about your feelings”—it’s a medical evaluation by a psychiatrist who understands the biological, psychological, and social factors affecting men’s mental health.
Your psychiatrist will explore:
- Your current symptoms—mood changes, anxiety, irritability, sleep problems, energy levels, or difficulty concentrating
- How symptoms are affecting your work performance, relationships, physical health, and daily functioning
- Your medical history, including any chronic conditions, injuries, or medications that could impact mental health
- Family history of depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, substance use, or suicide
- Life stressors—work pressure, financial concerns, relationship conflict, major life transitions, or loss
- Substance use patterns, including alcohol, cannabis, or other substances you may be using to cope
- Sleep quality, exercise habits, diet, and overall physical health
- Your goals for treatment and what you want to feel or function better in
We’ll work together to:
- Identify an accurate diagnosis—whether it’s depression, anxiety, ADHD, bipolar disorder, or another condition
- Distinguish between primary mental health conditions and symptoms caused by stress, medical issues, or substance use
- Discuss all treatment options, including medication, therapy referrals, and lifestyle changes
- Create a personalized treatment plan that fits your schedule, concerns, and preferences
- Address any hesitations or questions you have about treatment, especially medication
Many men are surprised to learn that what they’ve been experiencing—low motivation, irritability, difficulty sleeping, lack of enjoyment in activities—are symptoms of treatable psychiatric conditions, not personal failures or weakness.
After Your Evaluation: Getting Treatment Started
Most men leave their first evaluation with clarity about what’s been happening and a concrete plan to address it. Here’s what happens next:
Clear diagnosis and explanation – Your psychiatrist will explain your diagnosis in straightforward terms, what’s causing your symptoms, and why treatment will help.
Personalized treatment plan – Treatment may include medication, therapy referrals, stress management strategies, or addressing underlying factors like sleep, substance use, or medical conditions.
Medication started same-day if appropriate – If medication is clinically indicated, your prescription will be sent to your pharmacy before you leave. We’ll discuss how it works, potential side effects, and what to expect.
Follow-up scheduled in 2-4 weeks – We’ll monitor your response to treatment, adjust medications if needed, and ensure you’re seeing improvement.
Support for work accommodations if needed – We can provide documentation for FMLA, workplace accommodations, or disability claims when medically appropriate.
Coordination with other providers – If you’re working with a therapist, primary care doctor, or other specialists, we’ll ensure everyone is aligned in supporting your treatment.
Mental health conditions in men are highly treatable. Most men experience significant improvement in mood, energy, sleep, focus, and overall functioning once they receive appropriate treatment.
Why Men Choose Kolli Psychiatric for Mental Health Care
Psychiatrists who understand men’s mental health
All of our providers are board-certified psychiatrists with specialized training in diagnosing and treating mental health conditions as they present in men. We understand that men often experience depression as irritability or anger rather than sadness, that work stress and relationship conflict can mask underlying anxiety or depression, and that many men use alcohol or other substances to self-medicate untreated mental health symptoms.
Straightforward, judgment-free approach
We don’t make you sit in a circle and share your feelings. This is medical treatment for a medical condition. We listen, we diagnose accurately, we create a treatment plan, and we follow up to make sure it’s working. No stigma, no judgment, just effective psychiatric care.
Same-day treatment plans and medication when needed
You won’t wait weeks for answers or be told to “just try therapy first” if medication is clinically appropriate. If you need medication to address depression, anxiety, ADHD, or another condition, we’ll prescribe it the same day and schedule follow-up to monitor your response.
Flexible scheduling and telehealth options
We offer early morning, evening, and weekend appointments when available, and full telehealth services so you can meet with your psychiatrist from home, your car, or wherever is convenient. Mental health treatment shouldn’t require taking time off work or explaining where you’re going.
Convenient Red Bank location plus telehealth
Choose from in-person visits at our Red Bank office or meet with your psychiatrist via secure telehealth from anywhere in New Jersey, New York, or Pennsylvania. Follow-up medication management visits are also available via telehealth.
We treat the whole picture, not just symptoms
Mental health doesn’t exist in a vacuum. We consider how your work stress, relationship dynamics, physical health, sleep, substance use, and life circumstances all interact with your psychiatric symptoms. Treatment addresses the underlying causes, not just the surface-level symptoms.
Insurance-friendly out-of-network practice
We partner with Thrizer to handle your out-of-network insurance billing. Many men receive significant reimbursement and only pay their copay after meeting their deductible. You get specialized psychiatric care without the limitations of in-network practices.
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Serving Red Bank, Freehold, Rumson, Lincroft, Tinton Falls, Middletown, Manalapan, Marlboro, Ocean county, Monmouth county, Little Silver, NJ and NYC
Conditions We Treat
Our experienced New Jersey psychiatrists specialize in treating a wide range of mental health issues, from simple to complex concerns, including but not limited to depression, anxiety OCD, ADHD, corporate work stress, and personality disorders.
Common Mental Health Issues We Treat in Men
Men’s mental health concerns often go unrecognized or untreated because symptoms don’t always look like the “textbook” descriptions of depression or anxiety. We diagnose and treat the full spectrum of psychiatric conditions as they actually present in men’s lives.
Depression in men often shows up as irritability, anger, restlessness, or physical symptoms like headaches and digestive problems rather than sadness or crying. Many men describe feeling “numb,” losing interest in activities they used to enjoy, or struggling with low energy and motivation.
Anxiety in men may manifest as constant worry about work or finances, difficulty relaxing or sleeping, physical tension, or avoidance of situations that trigger anxiety. Some men experience panic attacks, while others have more chronic, low-level anxiety that affects daily functioning.
Work-related stress and burnout can lead to depression, anxiety, insomnia, substance use, and physical health problems. High-achieving men often push through stress until they experience a breaking point—we help you address it before it reaches that stage.
ADHD in adult men often wasn’t diagnosed in childhood, leading to years of struggling with focus, organization, time management, and follow-through. Many men assume they’re just “bad at adulting” when they actually have a highly treatable condition.
Anger and irritability can be symptoms of underlying depression, anxiety, trauma, or bipolar disorder. If you find yourself losing your temper easily, feeling constantly on edge, or experiencing road rage or conflict at work or home, psychiatric evaluation can identify the underlying cause.
Relationship and intimacy problems can stem from untreated depression, anxiety, or other mental health conditions affecting communication, emotional connection, and sexual function. Treating the psychiatric condition often improves relationship dynamics significantly.
Substance use and dependence often develops as a way to self-medicate untreated anxiety, depression, ADHD, or trauma. We assess whether substance use is a primary problem or a symptom of an underlying psychiatric condition—and treat both when needed.
Trauma and PTSD affects many men, whether from military service, childhood experiences, accidents, violence, or other traumatic events. Psychiatric treatment can help you process trauma and reduce symptoms like hypervigilance, flashbacks, avoidance, and emotional numbing.
Bipolar disorder involves cycles of depression and elevated or irritable mood. Many men go years being treated only for depression before receiving an accurate bipolar diagnosis—which requires different medication and treatment approaches.
When Should Men Seek Psychiatric Care?
You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from psychiatric evaluation and treatment. Many men wait until symptoms become severe or start causing problems at work or home, but early intervention leads to better outcomes.
Consider seeking psychiatric care if you’re experiencing:
- Persistent low mood, irritability, or feeling “flat” for more than a few weeks
- Loss of interest in activities, hobbies, or socializing that you used to enjoy
- Difficulty sleeping—trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or sleeping too much
- Changes in energy—feeling exhausted despite adequate sleep, or feeling restless and on edge
- Difficulty concentrating at work or remembering things that used to come easily
- Increased alcohol or substance use to cope with stress or emotions
- Physical symptoms without a clear medical cause—headaches, digestive problems, muscle tension, or pain
- Anger, irritability, or a short fuse that’s affecting your relationships or work
- Thoughts that life isn’t worth living, or thoughts of harming yourself
- Feeling overwhelmed by work stress, financial pressure, or relationship problems
- Recognizing patterns in your family history and wanting to address them before they become worse
- A sense that something’s off but you can’t quite identify what’s wrong
If any of this sounds familiar, psychiatric evaluation can provide clarity and effective treatment. You don’t need to reach a breaking point to deserve help.
Breaking the Stigma: Why Men Avoid Mental Health Care
We know that many men avoid seeking psychiatric care because of stigma, fear of being seen as weak, concerns about medication, or simply not knowing where to start. Here’s the reality:
Mental health conditions are medical conditions. Depression and anxiety involve brain chemistry, neurotransmitters, and biological processes—just like diabetes involves insulin or high blood pressure involves blood vessels. Seeking treatment isn’t weakness; it’s addressing a medical problem.
Medication isn’t a crutch. ADHD medication, antidepressants, and anti-anxiety medications correct chemical imbalances in the brain. They allow your brain to function the way it’s supposed to, giving you access to your own capabilities. That’s not weakness—that’s effective medical treatment.
You’re not alone. Millions of men experience depression, anxiety, ADHD, and other mental health conditions. High-functioning, successful men seek psychiatric care because they recognize that mental health is as important as physical health.
Therapy and psychiatry aren’t the same. You don’t have to “do therapy” if that’s not your thing. Psychiatrists are medical doctors who diagnose and treat psychiatric conditions, often primarily through medication management. Therapy is an option, but it’s not required.
Getting help doesn’t make you less of a man. Taking care of your mental health so you can show up for your work, your family, and your life requires courage and self-awareness. That’s strength, not weakness.
Schedule Your Men’s Mental Health Evaluation
If you’ve been dealing with symptoms that are affecting your work, relationships, or quality of life—or if you simply feel like something’s off—a psychiatric evaluation can provide the clarity and treatment you need.
Call our office at 732-655-4568 or book an appointment online. We serve men in-person at our Red Bank office and via telehealth throughout New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania. We see patients from across Monmouth County including Freehold, Marlboro, Middletown, Holmdel, and surrounding communities.
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If you’ve spent years wondering whether you have ADHD—or you’ve suspected it but never pursued a formal diagnosis—now is the time to get answers. ADHD is one of the most treatable psychiatric conditions, and the right diagnosis can be life-changing.
Call our office at 732-655-4568 or request an appointment online. We serve patients throughout Monmouth County including Red Bank, Freehold, Marlboro, Middletown, Holmdel, and surrounding communities, as well as telehealth patients across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania.
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Frequently Asked Questions About Men’s Mental Health Services
1. Why do men need specialized mental health services?
Men often experience and express mental health symptoms differently than women. Depression in men frequently presents as irritability, anger, or physical symptoms rather than sadness. Men face unique pressures related to work, provider roles, and societal expectations about masculinity that can affect mental health. Our psychiatrists understand these patterns and provide treatment tailored to how mental health conditions actually show up in men’s lives.
2. Where can I find men’s mental health treatment near me?
Kolli Psychiatric & Associates provides specialized men’s mental health services in Red Bank, NJ, with both in-person and telehealth appointments available. We serve men throughout Monmouth County including Freehold, Marlboro, Rumson, Middletown, Holmdel, and surrounding communities, as well as telehealth patients across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania. Our board-certified psychiatrists offer comprehensive evaluations, medication management, and therapy referrals designed specifically for men’s mental health needs.
3. How long does a men’s mental health evaluation take?
Your first psychiatric evaluation typically takes 60 minutes. This allows your psychiatrist to thoroughly understand your symptoms, medical history, life circumstances, and treatment goals. Follow-up medication management visits are usually 20-30 minutes. We offer flexible scheduling including early morning, evening, and weekend appointments when available.
4. Will I be prescribed medication at the first visit?
If medication is clinically appropriate for your condition, your psychiatrist can prescribe it during your first visit. We’ll discuss how the medication works, potential side effects, and what to expect. Not every patient needs medication, and we’ll only recommend it when it’s the right clinical choice. Many men benefit significantly from medication for depression, anxiety, ADHD, or other conditions.
5. What are the treatment options for men’s depression near me?
At Kolli Psychiatric & Associates, we provide comprehensive depression treatment for men through psychiatric evaluation, medication management, and therapy referrals. Depression in men often manifests as irritability, anger, physical symptoms, or withdrawal rather than obvious sadness. Our psychiatrists specialize in recognizing and treating depression as it actually presents in men. Treatment typically includes medication when appropriate, lifestyle modifications, and coordination with therapists when talk therapy would be beneficial.
6. How do you treat anxiety in men?
We offer evidence-based anxiety treatment for men experiencing chronic stress, panic attacks, generalized anxiety, social anxiety, or work-related anxiety. Treatment may include anti-anxiety medication, therapy referrals for cognitive-behavioral approaches, stress management strategies, and addressing underlying factors like sleep problems or substance use. Many men experience significant relief from anxiety symptoms with the right combination of medication and coping strategies.
7. Can you diagnose and treat ADHD in adult men?
Yes. Many men weren’t diagnosed with ADHD as children, especially if they didn’t have obvious hyperactivity symptoms or managed to compensate until demands increased in adulthood. We conduct thorough ADHD evaluations for men struggling with focus, procrastination, disorganization, impulsivity, or difficulty completing tasks. We provide medication management with both stimulant and non-stimulant options, along with strategies for improving attention, time management, and productivity. Adult ADHD treatment often dramatically improves work performance and overall functioning.
8. Do you treat anger and irritability in men?
Yes. Uncontrolled anger, irritability, and a short fuse can be symptoms of underlying depression, anxiety, trauma, or other psychiatric conditions. Our psychiatrists specialize in identifying what’s driving the anger—whether it’s untreated depression manifesting as irritability, anxiety creating a constant state of tension, or other factors—and treating the underlying condition. This often resolves anger issues while also improving overall mental health. We can also provide therapy referrals for anger management techniques when needed.
9. How do you address work stress and burnout in men?
Work-related stress and burnout are common reasons men seek psychiatric care. We help men develop effective coping strategies, evaluate whether stress has led to depression or anxiety that needs treatment, and provide medication management when appropriate. Treatment may include addressing sleep problems, improving work-life balance, setting boundaries, and treating any psychiatric conditions that have developed as a result of chronic stress. Many high-achieving men seek our services to prevent burnout before it becomes severe.
10. Do you treat substance use issues in men?
We assess and treat men who are using alcohol, cannabis, or other substances to cope with stress, anxiety, depression, or other mental health symptoms. Often substance use develops as a way to self-medicate untreated psychiatric conditions. We evaluate whether substance use is a primary problem or a symptom of underlying depression, anxiety, ADHD, or trauma—and create a treatment plan that addresses both. This may include medication management, therapy referrals, and coordination with addiction specialists when needed.
11. Can you help with sleep problems and insomnia in men?
Yes. Chronic sleep problems, insomnia, restless sleep, and fatigue are often related to underlying anxiety, depression, ADHD, or stress. Our psychiatrists provide comprehensive evaluation to identify what’s causing your sleep problems and offer treatment including medication management, sleep hygiene strategies, and addressing any psychiatric conditions affecting your sleep. Improving sleep often leads to significant improvements in mood, energy, focus, and overall functioning.
12. Do I need to do therapy, or is medication enough?
That depends on your specific situation. Some men do well with medication management alone, especially for conditions like ADHD or moderate depression. Others benefit from combining medication with therapy to address thought patterns, coping skills, or relationship issues. Your psychiatrist will discuss what approach makes sense for you, and we can provide therapy referrals if needed. You’re never required to do therapy if medication management alone is effective.
13. How do I know if I have depression or if I’m just going through a tough time?
Everyone has difficult periods, but depression involves persistent symptoms that last most of the day, nearly every day, for weeks or months. If you’re experiencing low mood, irritability, loss of interest in activities, sleep problems, energy changes, or difficulty functioning for more than two weeks, it’s worth getting evaluated. Your psychiatrist can determine whether you’re experiencing a depressive episode that needs treatment or a normal stress response.
14. I’m concerned about side effects or becoming dependent on medication. Is that a risk?
Most psychiatric medications are not addictive and don’t cause dependency. Antidepressants, ADHD medications when taken as prescribed, and most anxiety medications are safe and effective for long-term use. Your psychiatrist will discuss potential side effects upfront and monitor your response. Many side effects are mild and temporary, and we can adjust medications if needed. The goal is to improve your functioning and quality of life without causing problems.
15. Can psychiatric treatment affect my job or career?
Mental health treatment is confidential and protected by HIPAA. Your employer won’t know you’re receiving psychiatric care unless you choose to tell them. Many high-functioning professionals seek psychiatric treatment to maintain their performance and prevent burnout. If you need workplace accommodations or FMLA documentation, we can provide that, but treatment itself remains completely confidential.
16. Can I do my evaluation via telehealth?
Yes. We offer secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth evaluations for men throughout New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania. Many men prefer telehealth because it’s more convenient, eliminates travel time, and allows you to meet with your psychiatrist from your home, office, or car. Telehealth visits are clinically equivalent to in-person appointments for psychiatric evaluation and medication management.
17. Is men’s mental health treatment covered by insurance?
Kolli Psychiatric & Associates is an out-of-network practice, but men’s mental health services are typically covered as out-of-network mental health benefits. We partner with Thrizer to handle your insurance billing, and many patients receive significant reimbursement. After meeting your deductible, you often only pay your copay for visits. We provide detailed superbills for all major insurance carriers.
18. How soon can I schedule an evaluation?
We typically have availability for new patient evaluations within 1-2 weeks. Call our office at [PHONE NUMBER] or request an appointment online, and our team will match you with a psychiatrist who specializes in men’s mental health—either in-person at our Red Bank office or via telehealth.
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